LESSON 9: Appreciate Your Improvements

As you have experienced by now, knowing and following the 1 Rule is all you really need
to create harmony between you and your kids. Following it brings about all the following
side-effects, and more! AS you've used the 1 Rule, you must have used some of the
108 tools, skills and strategies I’ve discovered and created, without having to learn
them. You may have come up with some of your own.

Side-Effects Of the 1 Rule

Harmony With Kids
Positive Respect Mindset
Respectful Kids
Confident Kids
Harmonious Kids
Personal Clarity
Ability To Shift Your Thinking
Being A Good Model
Raising Trustworthy Kids
Ending Conflict
Self-Respect

                          Questions

1. Become aware of times you and your kids find agreement. Write about them in your
journal.
2. Choose your favorite side effects out of the list of Side Effects of the 1 Rule. Write
them in your journal and write why they are your favorites. Write examples of how you
have experienced them.
3. List the side-effects you have not yet experienced that you would like to experience.
Write why you would like to experience them.
Lesson 9